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Why Modern Dating Is Broken: AI Partners, Marriage & Love | Sandeep Das | FO525 Raj Shamani

by Raj Shamani · Jun 20, 2026 · watch on YouTube ↗

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@Irakhithakur · ▲ 45 · Jun 22, 2026
Sandeep Das said feminism is all about the “boss babe, boss CEO” culture and that it’s coming to an end.

But feminism literally means equal rights and equal opportunities equal pay, equal access to education and healthcare, freedom from gender-based violence and discrimination, and the right of individuals to make choices about their own lives.

I genuinely don’t know where Mr. Das got his definition of feminism from.

All I hear from him is, “Respect men. Give them peace.” He shared the story of a CEO who lost his job and got hurt when his son said, “You’re free, but I have work. I’m not free like you.” He took that as a blow to his ego because he was unemployed. But to me, that says more about the values he and his wife passed on to their son. If a child doesn’t respect his parents, he won’t magically respect others either.

Then he complained that his wife asked him to fix a faucet or call a plumber because he was home. So what? It’s their home. If both spouses work, and one of them has more time, taking care of household responsibilities isn’t humiliation. Why is it beneath a man to call a plumber just because he used to be a CEO? Why does masculinity have to be so fragile that helping maintain your own house becomes an attack on your identity?

I respect Raj Shamani a lot, but if this guy comes back on the podcast, I’ll probably skip the episode.

I’ve been practicing law for eight years. I’ve seen cases firsthand. The level of violence and abuse women face in this country is insane. It’s easy to sit comfortably in a podcast studio and dismiss women as “boss babe delusional.” But who created those women? Who forced generations of women to become hyper-independent?

I’ve seen women from my mother’s generation endure abuse in the name of marriage because they were told, “Accept it or leave.” They had no financial independence, no support, and no choices. They sacrificed everything because society expected them to.

And yet, when men are asked to make even basic sacrifices or share responsibilities, suddenly they start whining that they “just want peace.”

Peace should not come at the cost of women’s freedom, dignity, or equality. Feminism was never about women becoming superior to men. It was always about women finally being treated as fully human.
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@saurav8095 · ▲ 44 · Jun 21, 2026
I am a 31-year-old man, and my parents are discussing my marriage. However, after seeing so many divorce cases, cheating incidents, and extramarital affairs on social media, I feel very scared and anxious from the inside. Even before the relationship has started, I already have a negative mindset. I don't even know the woman I may marry yet, but I keep thinking that she might cheat on me or create problems in my family.
Whenever I open social media, I come across videos of women insulting their husbands, abusing their in-laws, fighting with their families, or talking negatively about marriage and relationships. Seeing such content repeatedly has made me fearful and suspicious, even though I haven't met the woman yet. I don't understand why these thoughts and fears affect me so strongly.
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@somshankarchowdhury · ▲ 32 · Jun 22, 2026
I absolutely HATE this fantasy and romanticising of marriage as if it's a beautiful thing for most couples to be together and they are being a pillar of support for each other. That is NONSENSE.
Most couples are frustrated and unfulfilled because they are not meant to be with each other forever. So marriage isn't some highway to great companionship that these two want to make it seem.
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@BatmanfromIndia · ▲ 19 · Jun 21, 2026
Ok so let's be honest there's no loyalty people are delusional no profit of having kids as prices are getting high and high we all want independence and money laws are cooked risk of mental and physical health. So its better for all of us to not marry those who want to can go ahead and lastly no disrespect to any gender. We deserve to live on our own terms. And those who want to go with the flow remember don't go in search of death and love they'll find you own their own. Stay happy and blessed ❤
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@DishaDesle · ▲ 14 · Jun 20, 2026
Where's love? Where are feelings? Emotions? .........In my opinion when ppl are in love they don't mind (they shouldn't mind) what's the salary... looks.... requirements....if you love truly you'll stay no matter he's earning less..she not good looking......huh true love exists but the reason he gave in the podcast were really very correct 💯👍🏻 Thanks sir you changed my perspective about a relationship.....
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@DivyamKhandelwaldiv8 · ▲ 10 · Jun 21, 2026
This podcast hit the real pain point — modern dating has become emotionally exhausting.

Mixed signals, breakup pain, marriage pressure, family expectations, loneliness… people don’t always need advice. Sometimes they just need someone to listen without judging.

That’s why we’re building Boli AI— a private AI emotional support companion for love, breakup, family pressure, and late-night overthinking.

Not replacing human connection. Just helping people feel heard when they don’t know who to talk to.

Would love to hear what this community thinks: do we need more dating apps, or more emotional support spaces?
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