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Why Modern Dating Is Broken: AI Partners, Marriage & Love | Sandeep Das | FO525 Raj Shamani

by Raj Shamani · Jun 20, 2026 · watch on YouTube ↗

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@piyusinha9245 · ▲ 310 · Jun 21, 2026
In my case, it's neither a delusion nor some unrealistic checklist that's keeping me single. I've always looked for a traditional kind of love from the very beginning, one that's built on respect, commitment, partnership, and the intention to grow old together.

What I've often experienced is that many men are comfortable with dating or relationships but hesitate when it comes to lifelong commitment and marriage. They want the companionship, but when it comes to making a lasting commitment, fear takes over. On the other hand, the arranged marriage process can feel equally exhausting. You're assessed like a product: your appearance, height, salary, cooking skills, family background, and even whether your parents might depend on you in the future.

What bothers me most is that very few people seem interested in knowing who I am as a person. What are my aspirations? Am I comfortable? What kind of life do I want? Why is it automatically assumed that after marriage, I should stop being responsible for my own parents? Why can't they depend on me the same way a son's parents can depend on him?

Many people marry because of age, family pressure, social expectations, or the desire to continue the family line. Very few are genuinely looking for compatibility, mutual respect, emotional connection, and a shared vision for life.

So no, people don't stay single for frivolous reasons. Most don't choose loneliness. Sometimes the circumstances, disappointments, and repeated experiences become so draining that you eventually choose the path that helps you protect your peace and move forward.
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@apurvasingh5772 · ▲ 184 · Jun 22, 2026
Feminism is not against marriage. It is against women being treated like unpaid servants without respect or independence. As women gain more freedom and opportunities, some people try to push them back by glorifying the idea of the "traditional wife." For years, society has told women that their happiness lies only in serving their parents, husbands, and children. It romanticizes concepts like "motherly sacrifice" and uses emotional pressure to confine women to domestic roles. This is why many feminists criticize narratives that glorify traditional wives as the only path to happiness.
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@nashwararai8110 · ▲ 94 · Jun 21, 2026
Who are those women saying I want my life like my mother ?? Seriously I have not seen a single woman around me who is saying like this ....This guy is telling that being free maid with complete disrespect is better but loving ourselves is better.....In the beginning I thought he is saying something true but after that his own statements are contradictory


The only solution for healthy marriages is, Men should respect woman and understand wife cannot be like his mother because generation and requirements are different
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@nenavathanjali8079 · ▲ 66 · Jun 24, 2026
Hello raj,
After watching this podcast, one thing I strongly felt was that the conversation seemed to promote a narrative where women should prioritize traditional roles and limit their independence and ambitions.

The example of the man who stayed at home while his wife worked particularly stood out to me. It was presented as humiliating that his wife expected him to handle household responsibilities like fixing a tap or calling a plumber. But why is that considered an insult? Women have been managing homes, children, and countless responsibilities for generations, often sacrificing their careers and dreams in the process. Society has rarely questioned those expectations.

If a woman can be expected to balance both work and household responsibilities, why is it degrading for a man to do the same? Household work is not beneath anyone; it is a shared responsibility.

I would genuinely like Raj Shamani to read through the comments and invite women with diverse perspectives to discuss this topic as well. Conversations about marriage, gender roles, and relationships should include both sides and not reinforce narratives that discourage women from being independent, ambitious, or pursuing their dreams.
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@Ises132 · ▲ 55 · Jun 23, 2026
i am 26 yrs old ....i am preparing for govt job from the last 5 yrs....no friends , i never had any boyfriend , nahii wo new terms ..aadho ka tho naam b nhi pata...pichle 5 saal m meri job tho nhi lagi pr zindagi ne bahut kuch sikhya...i was all alone from the last 5 yrs...tho mene tho akele wali zindagi dhek le h...or ye dhekne k baad i am telling you...ki sabse phele imp h job finanical stability , jo km tumhe pasand ho fir ek bina lalach wala pyar ...ye dono hii cheez zindagi asan ban denge....
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@Rajputksh01 · ▲ 54 · Jun 21, 2026
मेरी उम्र 37 वर्ष है,जैसे कि मेरी arrange marriage हुई, और यह सच है कि जो लड़की मेरी पत्नी बनी, वह एक बेहतरीन व्यक्तित्व की है। जैसे कि मैं शादी से पहले जो pressure, anxiety feel करता था, मतलब कि मैं भी शादी नहीं करने के चक्कर में था, लेकिन शादी होने के बाद मैंने पाया कि शादी होनी चाहिए, पर एक अच्छी लड़की से और लड़के को भी समझदार होना चाहिए, और साथ में दोनों को ही इस बात पर हमेशा clear रहना चाहिए, जीवन में कोई cheating नहीं करनी है किसी के भी साथ। सच में, जीवन और ज्यादा सुखद और आनंददायक हो जाता है।
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